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Motherhood Is 100 Tiny Deadlifts a Day. Nobody Warned Me What It Would Do to My Back.

By Jess Moreno, mom of two | Updated Oct 3, 2026

Mom pulling ReCurve out from under the bed at night

By 7pm, my lower back feels like a clenched fist.

Not from one big injury. From the car seat buckle. The crib rail. The bath. The laundry basket. The toddler who only wants to be carried when my hands are already full.

If you're a mom, you know the ache. It starts dull in the afternoon, and by bedtime you're bracing before you bend down for anything.

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I lived like that for almost two years. Then one night it got bad enough that I couldn't lift my own daughter out of the bath.

Mom leaning over the tub to lift her toddler out of the bath

The bath that made me realize this wasn't "just mom back"

It was a Tuesday, a little after seven. Maya was two and a half and did not want to get out of the bath. I leaned over the tub, hooked my hands under her arms and lifted, and something in my lower back grabbed so hard I had to put her straight back in the water.

I ended up sitting on the bath mat with a wet toddler in my lap, waiting for the pain to settle. I remember thinking, I'm 34. Why does getting off the floor suddenly need a strategy?

A physio later asked me to walk her through a normal day. Car seat. Crib. Toys. Laundry. A toddler on one hip while I cooked with the other hand. She stopped me halfway through. The problem wasn't one dramatic lift. It was the same small forward bend, over and over, all day.

Mom bending into the car to buckle a toddler into a car seat

I did not need another 30-minute routine

I already had stretches saved on my phone. I had a yoga app I barely opened. I had a heating pad I used while answering messages after bedtime. None of it fit the real problem: by the time I had a free half hour, I did not want a half-hour solution.

Unused yoga mat, heating pad and stretch video on a side table

I found ReCurve in a thread where other moms were sharing what they did after the kids went down. What caught my attention wasn't a big promise. It was how little effort it looked like. Lie back over it. Let the frame hold you. That's it.

The part that made sense immediately

The first night, I didn't set a timer. I leaned back over the padded curve until I felt a comfortable stretch through my mid and lower back, stayed there a bit, sat up, then went back to the kitchen. No video. No pose to remember. No balancing on a foam roller while listening for the baby monitor.

Most of a parent's day happens in front of the body. You bend toward cribs, tubs, car seats and little people. ReCurve supports your back in the opposite direction, so you can relax into the stretch instead of holding yourself there.

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FOR THE 5 MINUTES AFTER BEDTIME

A back stretch that takes less effort than making tea

  • Lie back for 2 to 5 minutes. No video, no pose to remember
  • Bends your back the opposite way to lifting, carrying and bath time
  • The frame holds you, so you can actually relax
  • Slides under the couch when you're done
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What changed for me

Some nights it's two minutes while I scroll. Some nights I stay longer because it feels good. On chaotic nights I skip it and use it the next morning.

The biggest difference showed up in ordinary moments. I stopped bracing before lifting Maya from the bath. I stopped waking up already thinking about my lower back. After long park days I still feel tired, but it doesn't automatically become tomorrow's problem.

Mom stretching back over ReCurve with the baby monitor beside her

That's why it stuck. ReCurve fit into motherhood instead of becoming another routine motherhood kept interrupting.

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If your back is paying for all those tiny lifts

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This article is an advertisement. The story is based on customer experiences; names and details have been changed. ReCurve is not a medical device. Do not use during pregnancy. If you've recently given birth, check with your doctor first.

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